We are wrapping up the…uh…”informational” portion of For the Love…Of Blogging today with a Q&A post. Both Miranda and I are interviewing our husbands about living with wives who are addicted to into the social media world.
My husband, Cortney, has been what I think of as a “tech geek” for as long as I’ve known him. He builds computers (as a hobby. ok he did it once), and he runs our “network”, AND he has been in and out of the online nerd tech forums longer than I knew they existed.
He got me involved in MySpace (yes, I just admitted that. No, I don’t still have an account) and eventually persuaded me to join facebook.
So in reality? I blame Cort for my obsession with social media.
And with that said, I interviewed him about my obsession with social media.
Me: So you’re married to a social media addict. What’s that like?
Cortney: Well, it has its pros and cons. Being able to meet and build new relationships with online friends is pretty cool. I never would have thought that we (you) could know so many people all over the country / world. I’m pretty sure if we went on a trip and needed a place to crash, there would be someone within reasonable distance that would put us up for the night. That is pretty cool considering we haven’t met most of those people in person.
A downside is home life sometimes takes a back seat to the tweeps and blog rolls… but since they can be your support structure when I can’t, it can be an even trade at times.
Me: mm. yes. my attachment to my laptop. So you’ve noticed that, huh? Ok, but you are involved in social media as well. I am sure your interests are different than mine since you don’t seem that excited when I tell what other people are tweeting in regard to Red Carpet fashion. What do you primarily use social media for?
Cort: I enjoy the use of social media to meet some interesting people all over the world as well… many through your connections… but mostly I use it to ask for advice on technical projects / personal product reviews.
I also enjoy the ability to spout off my opinion or random thoughts on whatever floats in to my brain… with the hope of a smart ass reply that hopefully leads to some interesting banter between friends. On twitter especially, it makes me smile when someone lets me know that my dumb comment made them giggle or put a smile on their face.
Me: Yes, you are a witty fella. You have a blog, yes? Tell my lovely readers about it.
Cort: I DO! My blog is called TastyButteredToast and it’s my own little corner of the internets. I can honestly say that there really isn’t a theme or specific purpose to my blog other than for the occasional vent, opinion, or thought that happens to move me to write and publish it for the blogosphere. I’ve posted about the loss of my father, the birth of my son, a rainbow, the difficulties on landing a job, and my adoring wife. So the subject matter really runs the full gamut. I’ve even asked twitter what they wanted to know about me… I have yet to find something that I’d rather not post…but I’m sure it’s out there.
So if there’s something you’d like to know my opinion on or something about me, just ask. I love a good blog prompt…
Me: Nice. Wait. Why did you name it “Tasty Buttered Toast” of all things?
Cort: Well, when thinking about a name for my blog, I wanted something that everyone could relate to. something that…when you thought about it, (he is nodding like I should know what he’s talking about here) you’re like….”mmmm…tasty buttered toast. I like buttered toast.” And if naturally you like buttered toast, then subconsciously you will like my blog as well.
I’ve actually gained followers because my blog had the word “buttered” in it.
Me: ok. that is sort of weird. but whatever. So anyway, why did you start your blog?
Cort: I had originally thought the blog would give me something to do while Short Stack (Eddie) was sleeping or between job hunting sessions… and to stroke my massive ego. Just knowing that millions of readers out there had been patiently waiting to see what my next thought or opinion was finally had a vehicle to get the word out.
It wasn’t until a few days into having a blog that I realized that I actually had very little to say… that was a bit of a bummer considering I’d like to think of myself as a fairly interesting person. I mean really, if I find myself interesting, why shouldn’t everyone else, right?
It also occurred to me that Sluiter Nation was only telling one side of the story, I wanted an outlet to be able to put my side of the story out there when needed. To show my massive following that it doesn’t always happen the way you describe and I have a point of view as well. Little did I know you would get it right more often than not.
Me: You have lots to say, I hope you know that. And if you would sit and blog it out? It would be wonderful. Speaking of wonderful, do you read any of the blogs that your lovely wife authors?
Cort: I read all of my lovely wife’s blogs. I like to see all the wonderful things she has to say about me… massive ego, remember?
I find her to be a fantastic writer and knowing the sound of her voice, when I read the words I can “hear” them as though she was saying it… and I also think that sometimes she uses the blog to talk about topics that she wouldn’t or would have difficulty talking about in person. I know she has found a huge support circle out there to get advice and positive vibes when things are low, and to celebrate when good things happen.
Me: Awe. You are sweet. Do you think it’s good or bad that we are so into each others social media lives? that we know pretty much all of each others biz-nas?
Cort: Yes, I do.
Sometimes I think it would be good to have an anonymous slice of the internet pie to voice whatever I wanted without worry or concern about who was offended or what was said… not that I have a lot to say that would be that controversial, but everyone has those days where they want to swear at the world regardless of who is listening.
On the flip side, I think that by being able to put your name to feelings and topics can open up additional dialogue offline that maybe wouldn’t take place otherwise. The blog can be a great ice breaker for difficult topics, it can give one the ability to get their entire thought out without being interrupted. A therapy of sorts, with all the readers being unlicensed therapists, giving their support and advice.
Me: I agree with that 100%. So, do you have anything else you want to dazzle our readers with?
Cort: Did you ever notice that the word therapist is “The Rapist” without the space? Interesting coincidence don’t you think? The raping of your brain / emotions / thoughts? Hmmm… I just blew your mind.
I would like to say that I am genuinely happy for the success that Sluiter Nation has experienced over the last couple years. Followers, friends, occasional commenters… all these people add a little sanity to our more than insane lives. It’s good to know we’re not the only ones out there having to deal with strife, loss, joys, and sorrow.
Viva Sluiter Nation!
Viva Sluiter Nation, indeed, Cort.
I must plug my husband’s blog here. He doesn’t post all that regularly, but what he says is wonderful. I love this post about what makes a lullaby. Or this post where he tells about why cancer sucks. Or this beautiful post he wrote after his grandpa passed this past Christmas.
And with that said, you all may use the comment section here for comments or more questions on anything we talked about this week. No linky today…just discuss. Although if there IS something you would like me to look at, feel free to let me know that in the comments!
I had so much fun here, you guys. Even with my crazy busy schedule, this was good. No, it was more than good. It was amazing! Thank you SO much for participating.
To thank you? Tomorrow Miranda and I will have giveaways ALL. DANG. DAY!
Starting at 9am est until 5pm est, there will be one giveaway per hour here. and Miranda? Also has a bunch! just to say THANK YOU to you all!
Because this wouldn’t have been possible without YOU.
