Sneaky, Sneaky

Recently I read some survey results that Netflix did indicating that 71% of moms admit that they “sneak” in Netflix time between all their busy momming duties. Some of the even hide in bathrooms and closets to catch the next episode of the new favorite show.

This statistic really didn’t surprise me at all. Staying home with my kids during the summer definitely makes me feel like hiding–and sometimes I do, but with a book on the deck. And that is usually only in the summer since I’m at work teaching during peek Netflix sneak hours of the school year.

But we do have a Netflix sneaker in our house: Eddie.

He knows there are certain shows that I’m fine with him watching, but that I don’t want his younger siblings watching yet. Anything fighty like Pokemon or Troll Hunters I would rather he watch on his own. So while I’m doing something with Charlie and Alice upstairs, Eddie will suddenly disappear. When I head downstairs to do laundry, I will find him curled up in front of Netflix binge-watching every episode of shows like Buddy Thunderstruck.

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Buddy Thunderstruck is one of those “choose your own adventure” shows like Puss in Book is. Speaking of that boot-wearing cat, there are new episodes of Puss in Boots that Eddie likes to watch too.

While he will sneak away during the day, his prime sneaky watching time is early morning. He tends to wake up around 6:30am, well before his siblings and I get up. This morning, for instance, I found him in a little nest he built himself watching Sing, which was just released on Netflix and which he absolutely couldn’t wait for the rest of us to enjoy with him apparently.

If I did stay home with my kids every day, all year long, I would probably become a Netflix sneaker too, to be honest. I imagine myself making the kids all rest during Alice’s nap and then I would binge on my ipad or something. Those surveyed said doing the sneaking gives them much-needed “me time.” What do you think?

What kind of sneaky sneakerton are you? And what would you watch? I would catch up Orange is the New Black since I haven’t watched any of it since my maternity leave with Alice.

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Watch and Learn

“Why do you like this show? It’s sort of weird.”

“I just do, Mom.”

“But why? Why do you pick it?”

“I don’t know. I like the action.  But I also like shows where someone doesn’t change themselves to make people like them.”

I was surprised. I honestly didn’t think he would have such an insightful answer, but it makes sense. His favorite shows are Pokemon, Digimon, and Yu-Gi-Oh. While I think they are pretty strange and the characters act odd, he loves it. I’ve watched with him before and he’s right: the main characters in the shows are all people who are loyal, trustworthy, and kind. And even though they are regularly taunted, they choose to stay true to themselves and their friends.

Everyone knows one of the reasons I am such a big advocate for reading is to build empathy and compassion in my kids’ hearts. It never occurred to me until Eddie said this that media like TV, movies, and games could help instill this as well. We blame TV and movies for a lot of ills–and rightly so. There is a lot of garbage out there that can undo the values we try to instill in our kids. But there are good shows out there too that reinforce the kind of people we want our kids to grow up to be. And let’s be honest: sometimes our kids will listen to what a cool show or movie says more than they will listen to their parent, am I right?

Monday Eddie discovered Happy Feet (which was just released May 1 on Netflix). He was engrossed because he loves music and funny penguins, but I realized that this too was another show where the main character embraces who he is–a penguin that can’t sing, but has mad dance skills.

Another character Eddie identifies with is King Julian. Again, I think it’s maybe the made dance moves and the fact that he, too, likes to “move it, move it.” Eddie is a goofy, positive, happy kid who wants to spread that around to others. He is unapologetic for being who he is. A new series, “All Hail King Julian: Exiled” is coming to Netflix May 12. Ed’s pumped.

We have our share of struggles with Eddie as he approaches age 8, but self-confidence about who he is has never been one of them. In fact, I admire his ability to walk into a room and make friends immediately with anyone. I think it’s no coincidence that he choose shows and movies with protagonists who have the same qualities.

Oh! Before I sign off…The Secret Life of Pets is now on Netflix! I’ll admit, I have NO IDEA if this fits what I’m writing about here, but I can tell you it is on deck for a Sluiter Family Movie Night soon!

Disclaimer: This is not a sponsored post. I am a member of the Netflix Stream Team. Netflix provides the Netflix and a device to watch it on, and my family and I provide the opinions. It’s good times for everyone!

 

 

Girls Can Too

Have I ever told you about how Eddie is a feminist?

I honestly can’t pinpoint when it happened; he has always just had intense feelings about how boys and girls can like and do the same things and anyone who tries to challenge that gets quite the ear-full from him. Actually, he is pretty passionate about social justice in general and is always looking out for the people who might be mistreated, left out, or hurting. In fact, his teacher this year described him as “quite the little activist.”

That makes me more happy than I can express.

He has a bunch or rowdy, good guy friends he hangs with who like to use their imaginations, run around, and trade Pokemon cards with him. But when he was Person of the Week and he brought home his book that everyone wrote to him in, over and over the girls (and some of the boys) described him as “kind” and “helpful” and a “good friend.” He tells me a lot that boys don’t really play with the girls at recess, but he does sometimes because they are his friends too.

I even overheard him and another kid talking about the president and Eddie said, “If Clinton had won, she would have been the first girl president ever. And that is a big deal. I wish she would have won because we need girls to do those jobs too!”

It’s probably not a surprise then that he is always thinking of his sister in this way, Whenever we watch shows that have strong female characters, Eddie says, “this would be a good show for Alice!” It’s interesting to me, because he never really says that about things just because they are girly, but it’s like he noticed the girls in the shows who do things that the boys can do too.

One of his favorite shows has been A Series of Unfortunate Events, and he has told me, “Mom, I think Alice will like this show someday because the baby, Sunny, is cute and the older sister, Violet is really smart. Just like Alice.”

He also really likes the show Trollhunters. He thinks I should get a purple stripe in my hair like Claire, but I told him maybe not.

When Eddie was very small, we always taught him that there were no such things as girl colors or boy colors; there are just colors. And if you like a color it’s a YOU color. When I would go away to conferences, he would ask that I paint his nails the same color as mine so we could think about each other when we looked at them.

And when I was pregnant with Charlie and brought home a baby doll, he loved it and immediately named it Baby and we used it to talk about what life would be like when Charlie arrived.

(Once Charlie was here, by the way, one baby was apparently enough for Eddie, and Baby was cast into the toy room never to be found again…until Alice revived her.)

Eddie has never shied away from doing or liking something simply because people think it’s “for girls”–which is probably why he has also watched every episode of Monster High on Netflix as well. He just likes what he likes!

But it makes my heart soar when he noticed strong girls and thinks of his sister, or when he hears the Disney channel commercial with the Dream Big, Princess song and sings along to it TO his sister.

It makes me feel like we’re doing something right around here, and that Eddie will do wonderful things for women and social just someday.

This is not a paid post. I am a member of Netflix’s Stream Team. They provide the Netflix and a device for our family to watch it on. We provide the opinions and experiences.

Beyond Cartoons

With Eddie turning eight this summer, we are finally seeing the light at the end of the Kiddie Shows Years. Don’t get me wrong, with an almost-two-year-old who is very interested in everything Mickey Mouse–and who puts her hand to her mouth and says, “Oh Tooooodahs!”–we are not exactly out of those years, but we are starting to have more than just animated shows and movies on our TV screen.

While Alice and Charlie still enjoy shows like Curious George, Octonauts, and Little Einsteins, Eddie is ready for something aimed more at his age group. When we get home from school, we have about an hour before his brother and sister get home. In that time he likes to watch a lot of anime–which admittedly is not my favorite programming, but he likes it and most of it is really Ok as far as content, so whatever floats his boat…er…catches his Pokemon. Am I right?

There have been a number of Netflix movies that our family has found to enjoy together, most notoriously Zootopia. However even that has started to lose Eddie’s interest. He would rather watch Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, which is boring and a little freaky for the little kids.

So we are getting into that space of life with Littles where it is hard to please everyone.

This month, Netflix released the first season of Lemony Snicket’s Series of Unfortunate EventsI admit I have never read the books, however they always seemed like something I would have loved as a child. Eddie is still a little young to have read the on his own, however he had heard of them. So one day after school, I showed him the show knowing he liked darker stuff (like our buddy Willy Wonka).

He was immediately taken by it. Neil Patrick Harris is an awesome Count Olaf and Patrick Warburton (aka David Puddy on Seinfeld and Cronk on The Emperor’s New Groove–also a Netflix fave back in the day) is a ridiculously perfect Lemony Snicket. It’s just dark enough, but not so much so that it is scary.

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Eddie binge-watched all the episodes without me.

Another family-favorite movie is Home. Netflix now has an animated series based on the movie. It’s pretty cute and all three kids like it, so it’s a win here!

Eddie also discovered that now there is a “recently added” row of suggestions under his profile. This is handy because it helps find stuff that he might not otherwise watch. Like a show called Precious Puppies which my puppy-lovin’ kid watched.

And saw puppies being born.

His reaction? “It was so gross…and kinda cute at the same time.”

This is why we love the individual profiles…that could have been a WHOLE lot worse if his profile wasn’t catered to his age group.

Thanks, Netflix.

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Netflix and Dinosaurs and Trucks

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Ah, the smell of fall is in the air today. I am seeing lots of back to school pictures filling up my Facebook feed. Eddie’s teacher letter came in the mail today making him ALL excited that he needs a pencil box for first grade. Yes, it’s almost time for school to start.

Many parents feel a mixed bag of emotions this time of year, and I’m not different. Although I will say that having been off work since March 5, and having the boys home since June 6, I am ready for us all to get back on our school schedule. I am excited to start another year with 8th graders, we all look forward to Eddie becoming a 1st grader, and Charlie is pretty jazzed about Alice coming to daycare with him.

We have two weeks left.

In those two weeks I was hoping to jam in some last minute summer fun!  Then it rained. A bunch. And now it’s all of a sudden 65 degrees–not exactly beach weather, if you know what I mean. It’s even windy enough that the state parks are flying red flags at Lake Michigan.

But fear not! The boys have found themselves a new Netflix original series to keep them occupied when the weather is too chilly and wet for slip n slides and bike rides: DinoTrux!

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This show is about these creatures that are part dinosaur and part machine. There are also tiny ones that are party lizard and part machine.  They are sort of like the little tools and the big dinosaurs do the big construction work. For a kid like Charlie who loves all things construction and big “monsters” like dinosaurs, this is the most perfect show. There are “good guys” who are all friends and a “bad guy” who tries to break up the friends. Of course the friends always win by working together. Well, at least for the three episodes we’ve watched they have.

It’s a cute little show to fill the time between play doh and lunch time. From today until two weeks when we go back to school.

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Disclaimer: This is not a sponsored post. I am a member of the Netflix #StreamTeam. Netflix provides their service and a device for us to watch it on. All opinions and show choices are our (my) own.

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