It’s been two weeks since I announced publicly that Sluiter Nation is looking to add a new member.
I wish I could say things have been all happy and butterflies since this announcement. But not so much.
I quit my birth control a few months ago because it was giving me horrible cycles. And now I have acne like a 13-year old.
But that is manageable.
I got a pretty bad cold a couple weeks ago, but I recovered, and that has nothing to do with this.
Or does it?
I still have the cough.
But it’s not a reasonable cough that is all congested and then I hack it up.
No. It is a rattle that I can hear and feel, Cort can hear, others can hear, but pretends that it doesn’t exist when I cough. It just stays put and makes me look like a big cough-faker.
What does this have to do with making a baby?
I’m getting to that.
So I have this cough.
And now? I am starting a new cycle and my OB would like to see me try this pregnancy with no anti-depressants (I am currently on Celexa, for all you note-takers).
We talked about this in August at my last appointment, and I talked about it with my General Practitioner, and I talked about it with my Therapist.
Fear not, it has been discussed.
I know how to wean off the meds safely.
I also know that both my GP and my Therapist are standing at the ready because they would both like to see me on something.
“A healthy mom comes first. Then a healthy baby can follow.”
But we all understand where the OB is coming from. Why take meds if you can get by without? And they all agree that pregnancy hormones could very well “even me out” to where I won’t need them until postpartum again.
And thus began The Wean.
Halved my dose until I was ready to do a half dose every other day.
I am on every other day right now.
People? This is hard.
At first I only had physical side effects that were annoying at best. I had sort of a fuzzy feeling in my head, headaches, a tightness in my back, and an occasional “buzzing” sound/feeling in my brain.
I still had this cough the whole time.
I continued to taper.
My back got worse and worse. It’s a pain in my upper back, most the left side, behind my shoulder blade that feels like someone has a knife in my muscle and is twisting. And while they twist, the muscle rips and simultaneously wraps itself around the knife.
And it’s there constantly. No medication makes it feel better.
There is also exhaustion. Sheer exhaustion.
But I continue to taper my antidepressant.
Wednesday was my first day with NO dose. I was surprised at how Ok my brain felt.
Today? Everything crashed.
My pain in my back and neck is worse.
I could fall asleep on a dime, I am so damn tired.
My cough is less productive, but the rattling is still present.
And my mind?
Today I had to put my head down on my desk more than twice to control the Raging Bitch Monster that was welling in me. The very same Monster that took over my brain when I had undiagnosed PPD.
Tears welled in my eyes as I felt an urge to lash out at everyone.
Just like before. But this time I saw the Monster coming.
Everything today sucked because of this dumb Monster.
And just because I knew what it was, didn’t make it less terrible. In fact, knowing it was coming and who it was and that just by NOT taking my meds as usual, I had opened a door to let this Beast in? Pissed me off.
So I am emotional and ragey because of detoxing and I am emotional and ragey because I can see it’s NOT going to be Ok.
Today was hard.
And my back still hurts.
And my cough is still there.
And now my wrist hurts.
I have an appointment with the Nurse Practitioner on Monday. Things need to be sorted out.
Because this is not a happy way to start our journey toward Sluiter Baby #2.
Tomorrow I will post the first in my three-part series on how I built Sluiter Nation: The Blog including Tips for Blogger, Switching to WP, and all things Social Media in Between.